Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Cuba celebrates its first transgender wedding




A gay man and a transgender woman have married in a first-of-its-kind wedding for Cuba.
Ignacio Estrada, 31, and Wendy Iriepa, 37, tied the knot as a transexual couple on Saturday at a government marriage office, where they signed a marriage certificate, exchanged rings and kissed before a state official.
Same-sex marriage is banned in Cuba but the couple's union did not break the law. Iriepa, the bride, is legally a woman after undergoing the country's first state-sanctioned sex change operation in 2007.
"This is the first wedding between a transsexual woman and a gay man," Estrada said.
"We celebrate it at the top of our voices and affirm that this is a step forward for the gay community in Cuba."
The wedding, held on Fidel Castro's 85th birthday in what the couple had called a "gift" to the former leader, was aimed at advancing homosexual rights in Cuba.
Some of Cuba's best-known dissidents participated and US diplomats attended in a public show of support.

The bride arrived in a 1950s Ford convertible, sitting up on the backseat and holding a gay pride flag.
"I'm very happy and very nervous," Iriepa said as she stepped down from the car. "This is really the happiest day of my life."
[B]More tolerant[/B]
Many gays and transsexuals have been fired from government jobs, jailed, sent to work camps or left for exile.

That climate of persecution was famously chronicled by exiled writer Reinaldo Arenas' autobiographical Before Night Falls, later a feature film starring Javier Bardem.
Today, even if deep-seated macho attitudes toward homosexuality have not entirely disappeared, the island and its government are much more tolerant.
The country's most prominent gay rights activist is Mariela Castro, Fidel Castro's niece and President Raul Castro's daughter.

She heads the National Sex Education Centre and is firmly established in Cuban officialdom.
On arriving, Estrada said he was happy and nervous, but that the day's importance extended beyond him and his bride.
"This is a step forward for the gay community in Cuba," he said.

The couple met three months ago and fell in love, said Estrada, who has AIDS.

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

The Florentine- Timeless memories


I recently posted a pic of the old mansion, the Oglivie- Weiner House and the comments went viral within an hour. It has recently been purchased by John Bryant and his wife to be renovated into a bed and breakfast.

So many memories for so many people were born in this wonderful magical place. Quoting Bailey Thomas,, "The Florentine on Austin Place not far from downtown Shreveport. Originally home to the W.B. Ogilvie family and later to the Samuel Weiner family. In the 1950s, Robert Friend opened it as "The Florentine" which was a gathering spot for entertainers, celebrities and the eclectic. From "Historic Shreveport".

In the 70's Gene Barnett took possession of the grand old home. It became the home of the first openly gay bar in Shreveport. Again, those who were members of the LGBT community as well as those who weren't, celebrities, (I met a few myself as a teen there) and Shreveport's elite would dance the night away under the big disco ball that hung in the main ballroom.

Below are just a few of the comments where those who were there and miss it open their hearts to tell of the wonderful people we met there, some we loved, some we lost. But mostly we found ourselves there and connected to many who were there for the same reason.


For all my True Blood friends, this is the house that is in the opening credits of the series when it was in its hey day.
The FLORENTINE CLUB on Austin Place with the name emblazoned it. During its hey...See more
21 hours ago · Privacy: · · ·
    • Paula O'Neal I am so glad someone has bought it and is restoring it!!!!
      21 hours ago · · 3 people
    • Don McCoy Debbie, that was the opening credits for when WE were in our heyday...BAH! That place ruled.
      21 hours ago · · 3 people
    • Deborah Allen I'm next door at the Mercy Center alot I havent seen anyone there restoring it yet.
      21 hours ago ·
    • Kevin Brooks Was just talking about that last night!
      21 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Deborah Allen Oh the partying that went down in that place. I was just a mere child, mind you.
      21 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Don McCoy It's a shame that no one has bought that place and restored it.
      21 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Deborah Allen Don, after Saturday night, we are STILL in our heyday, dont you think?
      21 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Kevin Brooks The nights I woke up in the yard ...lol
      21 hours ago · · 3 people
    • Don McCoy Debbie, I was sneaking in there at 15 WITHOUT an ID!
      21 hours ago · · 2 people
    • Don McCoy Deb, totally agreed.
      21 hours ago ·
    • Tammie Wiltz I heard it was up for sale for only 80 thousand...don't know if that's true...but if so I hope someone snagged it.!!
      21 hours ago ·
    • Paula O'Neal ‎@Don McCoy, someone HAS.
      21 hours ago · · 3 people
    • Deborah Allen ‎@ Kevin that beats waking up upstairs with Miss Kitty and her dogs. lol
      21 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Deborah Allen ‎@ Don, I was there with my fake ID at 16 too. Like I said, a mere child.
      21 hours ago ·
    • Paula O'Neal Remember the killer party Danny threw me there?
      21 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Rebecca Bush In the 70s it was fabulous! You should see the Taj Mahal mural upstairs!
      21 hours ago · · 2 people
    • Paula O'Neal I've never been upstairs, but was always curious about it.
      21 hours ago ·
    • Deborah Allen ‎@ paula, yes! I was there!
      21 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Deborah Allen I can still see Chuck Davis in the corner DJing and me nagging him to play "Bella Lagosi's dead" a katrillion times. :)
      21 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Paula O'Neal I remember. You did my makeup, Bartilicous cut and colored my hair, and I got a manicure -- all at Ultimate Appearances.
      21 hours ago · · 2 people
    • Deborah Allen Paula O'Neal Danny did the video for the event too. It was awesome.
      21 hours ago · · 1 person
    • David Golden I think Gene(wasn't that his name?) lived upstairs...This was the first club I ever went to...and back then even if you had a fake ID,half the time you did't need it! I REALLY hope someone is restoring it...I went with a few investors @ 8-10 years ago and even then it was too expensive to fix up for a club.....it's sad b/c in it's heyday,as Deb said it was awesome...Let's hope SHE will RISE AGAIN!!!!
      21 hours ago · · 1 person
    • David Golden Who is fixing it up??
      21 hours ago ·
    • Leighton LaBorde I was connected to the people that bought it 15 or 20 years ago when it first closed down. I got the opportunity to crawl through the whole place. it's like a maze! and there are far more rooms and halls and whatnot than you realize. Such a great house.
      21 hours ago ·
    • Leighton LaBorde and yeah, I partied there a bit too. :)
      21 hours ago ·
    • Kathy Smith My parents got married in 1955 and had their rehersal dinner there! She says it was a lot different than when we went there. Ya think?
      21 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Leighton LaBorde ‎@ David. Gene was his name.
      21 hours ago ·
    • Deborah Allen Gene Barnett was who owned it through the 70s. Its changed hands several times. At one point, it was even donated to the Philadelphia Center. PC didnt have the funds to renovate it, so we sold it as well.
      21 hours ago ·
    • Rici Loc CLUES !!!!
      21 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Rici Loc I had talked 2 Gene a few weeks before he passed he called & said his throat cancer was better & in a few weeks he wanted 2 reopen & for me 2 start making fliers then Chuck called me & told me the sad news it was definitely the end of an era in Shreveport there will NEVER be a place like it
      20 hours ago · · 2 people
    • Kathryn Usher John Bryant and his wife have purchased the Oglivie-Wiener House. Three Shreveport artists have been documenting the house as part of the Texas Avenue Midnight Specialproject that launched just last week. There are some photos of the Oglivie-Wiener place on the TAMS Facebook page that you might enjoy.
      20 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Lewis Kalmbach I tell people that all the time and they are like "Your Kidding?" "NOOOOOO". Ohhh honey if those walls could talk....I'd be grounded for life!
      20 hours ago · · 2 people
    • Lewis Kalmbach Oh yes....Gene Barnett. Every night he would clear the dance floor and dance to "Love Is In The Air". Swishing and swirling about.
      20 hours ago · · 2 people
    • Roger Culver my first job out of high school was working the door there.
      19 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Debra Maiden I worked their when it was Clue and Florentine, wow debbie i know you thought i only did social work hehe. Yes Gene lived upstairs and it was soooooooooooooo beautiful. Those were the days.
      19 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Deborah Allen ‎@ Lewis, and he had candles lit on every table. It was so elegant. But we all knew he was more concerned with how HE looked in the lighting than the table :) He told me that one night. I was too young to understand why. :)
      18 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Harvey Dillahunty We were so lucky to have such a wonderful place to find ourselves--love was in the air and The Florentine gave us much happiness by the friends we met and still have today
      16 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Cecil Thad Coburn ‎"Love is in the Air .." if I remember correctly Gene wasn't the only one swishing and swirling on the dance floor..
      16 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Paul Weiss God Talk about a blaste from the past, those were the good ol days of parting till the wee hrs. There are those that remember the real Ms Kitty's Place! BadGirl lol
      15 hours ago ·
    • John Turner It's fortunate that Goodloe Stuck and the North Louisiana Preservation Society succeeded in saving all those Austin Place buildings in the 70s.
      15 hours ago · · 1 person
    • Deborah Allen ‎@ Harvey its where I met you! You were the cute young bartender who made me Sloe Gin Fizzes!
      15 hours ago ·
    • Joy Lynn Rosser I have some strong memories of that place, both in it's hey day and later as a haunted house.
      5 hours ago ·
    • Deborah Allen I also met Susan Sookie Pilkinton Lloyd there too. Who introduced me to her cousin Kim, who I introduced to my brother in law Richard Harold and they got married. Theres so many turns and roads in my life that lead back to this wonderful old home.
      2 hours ago ·
    • Susan Sookie Pilkinton Lloyd OMG! Gene use to grab we and head to the dance floor when "Love is in the Air" would play. The first time he did that I thought he was coming to try to shove coffee down my throat. When I got too wild, he would call my mother and tell on me. Mz. KITTY & THE PIRANHA DEL RAY, WITH A MIDNIGHT SHOW FEATURING THE MUSICAL STYLINGS OF THE ODD BUT ENTERTAINING COUPLE, MR. TOMMY KENNEDY & MZ. SOOKIE STARR! Tommy always found a way to occasionally make introductions. I miss him! And the kids these days thinking they are buying the highest of platforms!? Well, they need to take a gander at Fab Frank Lytle's and Susan Salters 10 to 12 inch platforms. My highest were only 9 inches and I still danced. When I stopped drinking over 30 yrs ago, Gene use to have a pot of coffee on and expected me to be there to visit in the back bar after 9pm on our designated nights. He was so glad I stopped. I'm thankful to have known that side of Gene & also to have been involved in those colorful times at the then magical FLORENTINE!
      about an hour ago · · 1 person
    • Susan Sookie Pilkinton Lloyd ‎@DEBBIE! He had me stay up there a few times when I drank too much and called my mother so she wouldn't worry. "Mamie Dahling, little Sookie had too much scotch and who knows what again and I don't think she needs to be driving to Elm Grove. I did not like the looks of those strangers that wanted her to go home with them, so she will be staying here. She will be able to drive tomorrow!" oh LORD. I would hear about it for weeks from both my Mother and Gene. Those dogs of his were very protective. Glad they liked me. Weren't they Shepherds? No wonder Gene was happy when I stopped drinking. We also had a few relative secrets that I won't mention on here, but a few of our old time closest friends are aware of some of that side story that had more to do with Gene, me and the Florentine back then than anybody realizes. I will wait til they are all haunting before I put that in a book. I plan to haunt that place and dance the night away with so many of my friends!;-)
      53 minutes ago · · 1 person
    • Deborah Allen I remember Franks 12 inch platforms, his tall lanky body gliding down the stairway in them. What a sweet boy. The first friend we lost to a hate crime. It haunted me way into my late 20s. We were on the way to his funeral, I was pregnant with Micah and we were in a car wreck in the Fiat. It was a miracle I lived through that and didnt lose my baby. Like I said to John, the Florentine has been a part of my life in so many ways. Love and lost so many
      people there.

      • Paula O'Neal I remember when it was starting to suffer, they opened it for "fancy" lunches.
        2 minutes ago ·
      • John Bryant
        The Florentine started in 1950 as a supper club, known for the piano bar and upscale entertainment. Long list of celebs. from that time period preformed there, many more in attendence. We have some menus and flyers from those days. Lots of outdoor pictures, less inside.They had a sale many years ago and unloaded all the things from the original club. We have tracked down a few but still looking. I enjoy talking to older people that remember the club, one lady talks about the night she met Betty Davis, another about the Louisiana Hayride stars that came in, lots of shreveport history. We are really looking for those with memories, or better yet pictures of the days before the club. The Ogilvies owned the house for only about 10 years. The Wiener family around 40.
        about a minute ago · · 1 person